Is it a sign of personal weakness or strength for a woman to admit that she has a problem with alcohol or drugs?For any person to admit to themselves and others that they need help because they have a weakness, an addiction, a problem or some other issue requires the strength of humility, honesty and courage. It is only after a person is first honest with themselves can they be honest with others and reach out for the help they need. Alcoholism carries a certain social stigma, which makes the “admitting” even harder especially for a woman. Yet, this is the first step in any recovery program so whenever a woman gets to the point of admitting she is an alcoholic; it is a significant turning point in her addiction towards recovery. With help, guidance and support, she can learn how to overcome her addiction. Each day upon waking, the woman resolving not to drink “just for today” is going to be a key strategy. But it all starts with admitting the problem.
Nora,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed reading your post. I think women are more open about their addictions then men. I say that because we are emotional creatures. So even if its blurted out during a drunken "alcoholic" tirade, a woman will spill her guts about what's going in with her on the inside than a man would. I've been around men who drunk more than the average bear but they don't like to admit that they have a problem because they feel like they are stronger than that.
I think you bring up some good points. Women do have a certain image that they try to adhere to which makes an admission of drug or alcohol abuse much harder. They have to want to get clean for themselves and their families and support is a big factor that can make that happen.
ReplyDeleteNora,
ReplyDeleteI agree, it takes courage to admit one is addicted and in need of help. When it comes to making a difference in the life of an addict they first need to want to change, there is nothing more frustrating that wanting to help someone who refuses to be helped.
Monica L.